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Oct. 30th, 2010 10:45 pm The end

I have ended my 10 year relationship with Stuart.  I had to.

I am not ok, nor is he.
But we are determined not to lose our friendship as well.

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From:nitoda
Date:October 30th, 2010 09:46 pm (UTC)
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So sorry to hear this news, but you have to do what you have to do. ::hugs:: offered.
From:goodqueenmolly
Date:October 30th, 2010 09:51 pm (UTC)
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Sad news. Wishing you strength for the coming days
From:the_hatstand
Date:October 30th, 2010 09:54 pm (UTC)
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Damn.. so sorry. :-(

Many, many hugs. To you both.
From:ciciaye
Date:October 30th, 2010 09:55 pm (UTC)
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I'm really sorry to hear this. *hugs both a lot*

Take care of yourselves, both of you, and remember you've both got friends who care about you

From:megamole
Date:October 31st, 2010 10:20 am (UTC)
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Yup.
From:isihac
Date:October 30th, 2010 11:11 pm (UTC)
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*hugs* What he said. Even if you just want to talk about crocheting piano book covers to keep your mind off things, we're here.
From:artremis
Date:October 30th, 2010 10:47 pm (UTC)
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Sorry to hear this.
Good thoughts for you both
From:pendlemac
Date:October 30th, 2010 11:11 pm (UTC)
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Oh bum!

Hugs to both of you.
From:kaberett
Date:October 31st, 2010 12:10 am (UTC)
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I'm very sorry to hear this. The best of luck to the both of you in negotiating your new friendship.
From:the_hunter
Date:October 31st, 2010 06:01 am (UTC)
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^This, in spades
From:v15u4l_3rr0r
Date:October 31st, 2010 12:17 am (UTC)
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Sorry to hear. Hope you are both ok and I am thinking of you both *hugs* xxx
From:tiggsybabes
Date:October 31st, 2010 08:14 am (UTC)
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Oh no :( *hugs* xxx
From:el_staplador
Date:October 31st, 2010 08:16 am (UTC)
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I am sorry to hear this. The best of luck with the next steps.
From:alicephilippa
Date:October 31st, 2010 08:18 am (UTC)
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Oh no. :( *hugs*
From:cherade9
Date:October 31st, 2010 09:14 am (UTC)
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I'm really sorry. Thinking of you both. *hugs*
From:megamole
Date:October 31st, 2010 10:20 am (UTC)
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*HUGS*

You know where I am if you want to talk/email/whatever.
From:joeybug
Date:October 31st, 2010 11:01 am (UTC)
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I'm sorry to hear this..I'm around if you need to talk

*squishes*
From:green_knight
Date:October 31st, 2010 11:27 am (UTC)
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There's a giant shipment of <<> coming your way
From:zahrimsthoughts
Date:October 31st, 2010 12:34 pm (UTC)
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So sorry guys :( Its always horrid when things end, it may take time but 10 years is a long time I'm sure you will stay good friends xxxx
From:sweetcyanide
Date:October 31st, 2010 09:44 pm (UTC)
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Oh no :-(

I'm really sorry to hear this. If you need hugs, or anything else at all please do let me know.

Thinking of you both xxxx
From:damanique
Date:November 1st, 2010 12:11 am (UTC)
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*hugs* That really sucks, I'm sorry. I hope you can get things worked out, and feel OK eventually.
From:tcpip
Date:November 1st, 2010 06:53 am (UTC)
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But we are determined not to lose our friendship as well.

Strength to both of you...
From:twisted_times
Date:November 9th, 2010 02:11 pm (UTC)
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I'm sorry I've only just caught up to this; I totally missed it in the maelstrom of work/LJ stuff. sends you many many hugs and a really hot mug of tea*

I truly empathise with you, having had a nine year relationship end myself; that was just over four years ago and I can honestly say things do get better. I'm very glad indeed for you both that you still have your friendship even though you are no longer in a relationship, which must be said is far, far better than my last long-term relationship ended. If our paths ever do deign to cross, we should go for a coffee, or something stronger - I'm buying. :)